Attraction at workplace can be normal and never get pointed but if it’s not normal and do have some romantic touch then? Yes we are talking about romantic attraction at workplace. This is difficult to hide and difficult to show too. Also it affects your personal as well as your professional life.
You can also face legal norms too if the problem hits height. You have to be clear about what you want and how to manage your feelings. The only problem that takes place is that the person you have crush on is your co-worker and you must not get involved with your co-worker in any unprofessional relation.
Let’s do some postmortem of the condition and get some solution of your problem.
Never apply any condition on you as any condition applied will force you to break the rules and you will be forced by your own self to do what you must not do. This is not good for your reputation and the person you are falling for can create negative image of you.
There can be many situations where you can get some personal time with that person but you have to avoid this condition. Never make any condition that brings both you together for any project. Yes you can get time to be with your crush but remember this can affect your emotional control and hence can be harmful for your career and reputation.
Always think of the next person before taking any step also think of the affects that can take place. Your one step can make it the talk for the day or even news for the whole week and can defame your crush too. So never ever act stupid just by following your heart or feelings.
Your sudden change in behavior can also put doubtful thought in others mind. If you really want to show your concern to your colleague then run like the tortoise (slow but steady).
Defending the person in public or in front of your friends can also give a wrong signal but if you are right and the think you are defending the person is correct then don’t worry. Just to the correct thing.
Offering a coffee in office canteen or having lunch together is not a bad thing but not on regular bases this can also allow others to thing wrong about your intention.
Falling for anyone is not a bad thing, but always remember if you really are falling for someone do get some time and show your feelings. And accept the reply and reaction too.